Farhat Umar
Speaker's Craft1 min readShort read

The power of the pause

New speakers rush to fill every silence. Great speakers know that the pause is where the audience actually thinks.

If I could teach every new speaker one skill, it would be the pause.

When we are nervous, silence feels dangerous. So we fill it: with "um", with "basically", with faster and faster speech. The audience gets a flood of words and very little meaning.

A pause does the opposite. It gives weight to what you just said. It lets people think. It signals confidence: only someone at ease can afford to be silent.

Try pausing in three places. After your opening line. Before an important point. After an important point, for a full two seconds, longer than feels comfortable.

It will feel like forever to you. To the audience, it feels like presence.

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